You can get ANY girl, there are NO limitations

This type of nonsense is invariably spouted in Pick-up and dating literature "Forget about her-fuck ten other women". This is a clever piece of mental trickery-never mind what YOU want, do what I tell you.

That's bullshit. Repeat after me (say it out loud, then you'll believe it) "I can get any girl, there are no limitations".

Aeolian seduction doesn't EVER say you can't. The mindset is just completely different. Sure, some girls are more of a challenge than others, but think about-has any one ever got their ex back? Yes. Have they got the girl of their dreams even though, on paper she seemed way out of their league and/or unattainable? Yes. So why do dating gurus say you can't do it?

Mainly it is because you can't use social dynamics to win a girl who already knows you, or even a specific girl, because those tricks don't work that way. You are trying to trick a whole bunch of stupid girls that don't know you into believing you have more status than you actually do - if the girl knows you have lower status than you, or just doesn't give a shit, then PUA won't help you.

Aeolian seduction is different. It is entirely possible for a guy to get back with an ex, or get with a girl who has friendzoned you. Aeolian seduction depends on re-programming the girl's subconscious. PUA's think "she's not in me, I'm moving on"-they are just clueless in that scenario. Aeolian seducers think "She has a bunch of preconceptions about me which I can alter".

Ask yourself, have you ever become attracted to a girl you previously weren't?, for no apparent reason? Probably you have. Indeed, this happens all the time for men and women. So why accept the advice of dating gurus on this? You have eyes and ears and life experiences, what do they tell you?

Try this experiment: think of someone you really don't like. You will imagine them in probably an unflattering, threatening way. It depends on the individual, but you may imagine them against some kind of black background. You may imagine them angry or unsympathetic, portrayed in an unflattering way. You will get a kind of unpleasant feeling in your gut - this is your body tensing up naturally as it sense a threat.

Now, change how you think of that person. Imagine them in a pleasant relaxing environment, perhaps a park with a water feature on a pleasant spring day. Imagine them smiling, well-dressed and presentable in a style that appeals to you, maybe walking and laughing with a friend-observe that they are enjoying each other's company. Consciously remove that tightening from your gut and force yourself to relax. Take the feeling you get when you've just met an old friend and transfer that feeling to the image of this person you don't like. Imagine them performing some random act of kidness, maybe throwing back a ball to some children in the park, or helping an old lady who has stumbled.

Hold the image for a minute or two.

Now, how do you feel about that person? A lot better, right?

That's why you NEVER have to give up with a girl, any girl. She may not find you attractive now, but when you know, changing her perspective is almost as easy as the trick I've just described. And, if you buy the book in the link here, I'll show you much more powerful techniques than this one.

The technique I just described is pretty crude, as it is difficult to get a girl to sit down and tell her to imagine you being cool. The great thing is, there is a way to achieve the same effect (only stronger) without her even knowing, by talking directly to her subconscious.

Note the difference between aeolian seduction and PUA literature. We don't bullshit you. We show you exactly how this stuff works so you know it works.